Zhang ailing elder said in a very incisive word: every man's heart has two roses red roses, a white rose.
I think with a man: he should have three women.
One is white lotus flower, it is the boy's first love, pure like jade, beautiful dream. Can only far view and not how Xie play. For many men, that it's all a in the youth of the green dream again and again the swaying unreachable white lotus.
A is the red rose. That is the man's madly in love.
Fiery and enthusiastic, stirring like electricity. Not only can close in your arms, also can enjoy a kiss. Boy through the red rose, the washing into a man. The red rose to the mature man, is the wine of fondle admiringly.
A is the carnation. That is the man's wife.
Sweet quietly elegant, warmth affectionately. She is a man of power struggle, is a man of heart on, is a man of the return of Hong Kong bent. She is the man's second mother. Men are all children in nature. And the carnation would always forgive his naughty and waited patiently for him to play tired when back home.
So, the growth of a man, he will be like a white lotus, he would love a red, red rose. But he will choose a carnation to spend our life.
White lotus is not suit to live together, because she is so transcendent, otherworldly. The red rose up the man to conquer and male hormone secretion, but with a real to fire red rose, many men and no life this confidence. Because he will worry either get burned, or spreading to fish pond. And a lot of men need is a and good-tempered carnation wife.
But, if you're a lucky man, you have the chance to meet you in the dream, then let her white into a red rose, and finally to evolve into a carnation.